The moment we come into awareness about our own behaviour, words and actions, is the moment we have the choice to take responsibility for it, as the creators that we are.
It is IMPOSSIBLE to NOT REPEAT the same patterns, loops and cycles if we do not realize this, as we will still be in victimmode and will still think the outside world and circumstances are to blame for what happens in our lives. And it’s not.
How we create our lives and everything in it, is a big topic, not for this post, but what is crucial is to realize what our options are in this NOW MOMENT, when something has already happened.
Thus, it is our RESPONSE to life and all experiences, that puts us in a place of empowerment (or not) and gives us the opportunity to expand and evolve beyond the EGO identity.