BEing your truth, also in words and deeds, peacefully and with pure intentions, affects your inner state. Most of all it shows you that you CARE about your inner BEingness and that you are willing to hold space for your authenticity and all of your different soul expressions.
When you give yourself permission to embody all that you are, you show yourself that you honor all aspects of who you are. That doesn’t imply an absence of traits or behavioral patterns that you may wish to change in yourself, quite the contrary. It means that you allow all of it to be seen without judgement, so that you give yourself the opportunity to grow and evolve.
In the extension of NOT allowing yourself to fully express your soul self, there often comes a need to be in agreement with everyone else, and further using much energy and forms of manipulation to try to get the other to share the same truth as you.When you encounter uncomfortable feelings within you, in the case that there doesn’t seem to exist agreement between yourself and another, know that this points to a belief system created by your ego mind, as a means to protect and defend the existence of this false self. It thinks it needs people’s agreement, to be liked, loved and acknowledged or to thrive or be part of the collective.The triggers that arise in relation to others when our truth is “threatened” or compromised, are perfect navigators to our core wounds and chosen life lessons.
When you are in a situation where another does not share your perspective or comply with who you are or what you do, you may instead of seeing it as a threat to your beingness, choose to approach it as a self healing opportunity and a gift in disguise. Making the choice to listen to your inner voice and guidance, and take action that is aligned (whatever is appropriate and purposeful for the situation) with your truth, is a pivotal part of self healing.
If these patterns are something you recognize in yourself, follow the traces. Be your own witness. Observe how you feel and what repetetive thought patterns arise, when you do not speak your truth fully/do not stand in your power and integrity and find yourself in situations where you hide your soul essence and further feel misunderstood, taken advantage of or for granted, projected upon, exploited and so on. And further, observe what happens if you choose to allow yourself to release the need for other people to agree with you. All the time, focus on your own role and YOUR responses (feelings and thought patterns). It’s the only parameter you in fact have any power to affect/change. However, the change you make will energetically change the pattern within you and thereby the external situation.We are now in the midst of a massive collective transformation from division and separation between people, towards eventually realizing how we can live peacefully side by side in harmony with all beings, regardless of opinions or differences.
Through our present very challenging experiences, we will eventually learn compassion and unconditional love for each other, and co-create a reality where individuality (in unity) is seen as a prerequisite for evolution and an absolute necessity in obtaining self mastery. In this process, it is pivotal to give others the opportunity to be responsible for their own experiences, as you hold yourself accountable for your choices and life lessons. This is how we teach each other integrity (concistency between thoughts, feelings and actions), to not rob each other of our soul’s path and to not “hide“ out or distract ourselves when we feel uncomfortable. In the “uncomfortable” you will always find the gold, where you can quantum leap in your journey of self mastery and anchor this magnificent soul essence as a unique part of the collective New Earth unity consciousness, the New Humanity.